Navigating the Path: A First Generation Student's Journey through the Months Leading Up to College (Roxy)

Looking back on my college application experience, I had this overwhelming guilt about how I was going to afford three $70 application fees, let alone pay $20,000 at a state school. My parents, both of whom only received a middle school education, didn’t understand why education was a worthwhile investment. It was not that they did not support me; my parents have always pushed me to achieve what I want and have been beside me every step of the way. There is just a disconnect between the futures we want. From navigating unfamiliar territory to embracing the opportunities ahead, this is a journey filled with growth, resilience, and triumph.

1.Start Exploring Your Options

As a first-generation student, I was venturing into a world unfamiliar to myself and my family. I nervously embraced the courage it takes to pursue higher education and break the mold, from understanding the different types of colleges and majors to figuring out financial aid options. It is important to embrace the unknown and start exploring your options. When I worried that I was making the wrong choice for putting myself first, I remembered that I am blazing a trail for future generations and setting an example of what is possible. 

2. Embracing Support 

You are not weak for needing help. Being a first-generation college student means stepping into an unknown territory with no familial guidance. The only advice my parents offer is “Echale ganas” and to study hard. So where do you start? Before I have even stepped foot on the campus where I will spend the next chapter of my life, organizations set up specifically for first-generation college students have already reached out to me. Do not be afraid to accept help; everyone is here to watch you succeed.  

3. Discovering Your Passions

It’s normal not to know what you want. I’m still not sure my career choice is right for me. Like many other first-generation students, I decided to go to college to meet the requirements for my desired profession and also to bring honor to my family. Most first-gen students feel as if they are trapped and must follow what their parents want for them, but it is not true. You can break the barrier. Use this time to reflect on what excites and motivates you. You are more than just your parents.  

4. Navigating the Application Maze 

I envied my peers with parents who could help them navigate the college application process. I felt so alone and frustrated that I had to do this on my own. College applications can feel overwhelming, but remember that you are not alone. The college application is expensive and time-consuming, but there are resources out there to help. Research different colleges, their admission requirements, and application deadlines. Seek assistance from college counselors who can guide you through the application maze, ensuring you meet all necessary criteria.

5. Sharing Your Story to Others in the Same Boat

Throughout this process, I felt a disconnect between myself and my peers who had college-educated parents. I worked hard but had people who supported and encouraged me. As a first-generation student, your life experiences are unique and valuable. Craft a compelling personal statement that showcases your journey, challenges, and triumphs. Express how your background has shaped your perspective, instilled resilience, and fueled your drive to succeed.

6. Seeking Financial Aid

I, like many first-generation students, come from a low-income background. One of my biggest concerns was how to finance my education. Familiarize yourself with financial aid options, including scholarships, grants, and student loans. Fill out the FAFSA form and research additional scholarships designated for first-generation students.

7. Preparing for College Life

In the months leading up to college, take the time to prepare yourself for the transition. As I write this, I am drenched in anxiety about what will come next. The college system is complex and overwhelming, but it is not impossible. You are breaking down the barrier; be proud of yourself. Connect with current students or alumni to gain insights into campus life. Familiarize yourself with available resources and support systems on campus. You are not alone. 

8. Cultivating Self Care

The college application process can be stressful, so it is crucial to prioritize self-care. Take breaks, engage in activities that bring you joy, and lean on your support network during moments of doubt. Self-care is essential for maintaining your mental and emotional well-being throughout this journey.

Conclusion: Pave the Pathway for Future Generations

As a first-generation student, the journey through the college application process is marked by resilience, determination, and the courage to carve a path of your own. Remember that you are not defined by the challenges you face but by the strength with which you overcome them. 

Embrace the support available to you, both from organizations like Letters Against Depression and your network. Together, we can break down barriers, empower one another, and inspire future generations to reach for their dreams. Chances are, most first-generation students around you are nervous as well. You are not the only one afraid of starting at a new school. It is okay to be scared of something new. Help is always out there.  

If you are feeling down and need support, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us here at Letters Against Depression if you haven’t already. We send letters of hope and support to those who need someone there for them. You can request to receive letters here.